Divorce is a difficult time for couples. By using this handy guide hopefully you can handle the process better.

- Become educated. Things are always less scary when you know more about them. Look for a step by step guide on what happens during the divorce process.

- Behave. Losing your temper will not help anyone, especially you. Cooperate at all steps to ensure the process goes as smoothly as possible for everyone involved, including any children.

- Be involved. Actively negotiate with the goal of receiving an agreeable peaceful settlement.